A Monarch  had twin sons. As they grew to young manhood, the king sought a fair way to  designate one of them as the crown prince. All who knew the young men thought  them equal in intelligence, wit, personal charm, health, and physical strength.  Being a keenly observant king, he thought he detected a trait in one which was  not shared by the other.
Calling  them to his council chamber one day, he said, "My sons, the day will come when  one of you must succeed me as king. The weight of sovereignty is very heavy. To  find out which of you is better able to bear them cheerfully, I am sending you  together to a far corner of the kingdom. One of my advisors there will place  equal burdens on your shoulders. My crown will one day go to the one who first  returns bearing his yoke like a king should."
In  a spirit of friendly competition, the brothers set out together. Soon they  overtook an aged woman struggling under a burden that seemed far too heavy for  her frail body. One of the boys suggested that they stop to help her. The other  protested: "We have a saddle of our own to worry about. Let us be on our  way."
The  objector hurried on while the other stayed behind to give aid to the aged woman.  Along the road, each day, he found others who also needed help. A blind man took  him miles out of his way, and a lame man slowed him to a cripple's  walk.
Eventually  he did reach his father's advisor, where he secured his own yoke and started  home with it safely on his shoulders. When he arrived at the palace, his brother  met him at the gate, and greeted him with dismay. He said, "I don't understand.  I told our father the weight was too heavy to carry. However did you do  it?"
The  future king replied thoughtfully, "I suppose when I helped others carry their  yoke, I found the strength to carry my own." 
Khalil  Gibran prophesied, "You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is  when you give of yourself that you truly give. There are those who give little  of the much which they have - and they give it for recognition and their hidden  desire makes their gifts unwholesome. And there are those who have little and  give it all. These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their  coffer is never empty. It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give  unasked, through understanding. You often say, 'I would give, but only to the  deserving'. 
The  trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your pasture. They give that  they may live, for to withhold is to perish. Surely, he who is worthy to receive  his days and his nights is worthy of all else from you. And he who has deserved  to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little  stream."
You  will get everything you want from life, if you can help enough other  people
get  what they want from life.
 
 
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